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Values and beliefs are very deep structures and even intensive methods [such as brainwashing] can be insufficient to irreversibly change them. ~David Straker, Changing Minds – In Detail.

Seeking to change people against the flow of themselves is fraught with danger, relationally. So, then, why do we even try to do that, husband, wife, employee, manager or pastor?

These deep-seated structures–values and beliefs–are core to the people in our midst and they seem to hold them for their whole lifetimes. So, how do we work with these people in the ‘world of influence’ i.e. when we have a role to influence others for their and our own good; for the “team” goal?

The answer, I think, is to go against the whole matter of trying to influence. Our success depends mostly on the trust we have with people; how much they respect us, and us them. When we achieve these interpersonal results of positive rapport, and these people know our goals–as we seek to create influence, they will tend to want to align. We create alliances beyond the goals at hand; the bonds are stronger than the task within reach.

Changing minds comes notionally as a result of perhaps seeking the opposite–a totally rampant acceptance of peoples’ precious individualised viewpoints. How is it that we can achieve such an entwined purpose when we’re not seeking the goal itself? Perhaps it gives some credence to the fact that everyone’s values and belief systems inherently reinforce this one thing:

Everyone wants to be treated authentically, with respect and devoid of another person’s agenda. Everyone wants others to achieve their innate opinions. Everyone genuinely requires acceptance to truly thrive–in any situation, and yet this acceptance is quite simply the easiest thing to give. We only have to think passionately of the other person. But how many struggle to get beyond their own needs?

As a leader or a person of influence, surely it is others we’re in it for. Unfortunately, however, this is not always the case, and this is when we will get it all wrong. Achieving results against the grain is not only not enjoyable, it simply doesn’t work–not with sustainability in the long run.

We must start to trust people’s base values and beliefs without casting aspersions (either positive or negative) and seek to not change them. Other people’s values and beliefs are so very “them” they have nothing to do with us. Even if they did, we couldn’t change them. We can only accept this.

© 2010 S. J. Wickham.

Steve Wickham is a Registered Safety Practitioner (BSc, MSIA, RSP) and a qualified, unordained Christian minister (GradDipBib&Min). His blogs are at: http://epitemnein-epitomic.blogspot.com and http://inspiringbetterlife.blogspot.com.

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“What would you do if you knew you could not fail?”


Many people I meet have been held back in their lives for fear of failure, so much so that they have stopped themselves from pursuing their dreams and goals.

Today just take fa few minutes to ask yourself what you wold do if you knew you could not fail, and ask yourself if today is a good day to take just 1 step towards pursuing that goal your have been dreaming of and making it a reality.

If today is not the right day to start taking action, then when would be a great time to start? 

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Personal coaching over the telephone can aid greater openness between the coach and the coachee. When engaging in face-to-face personal coaching there are certain situations which may influence or distract parties during the session. This is not the case for all clients but many people feel more at ease and able to communicate openly when they are involved in personal coaching over the telephone as they do not see one another thus bringing openess to the coaching session.

In a face-to-face personal coaching sessions some of the distracting factors can include visual things like what the coach is wearing or how they are sitting, the look and style of the room and the general enviroment, the ambience and sounds can make a difference, as can the temperature and some clients may feel uncomfortable talking about very personal situations that have impacted on their lives when sitting in the presence of another.  Face-to-face personal coaching requires a level of trust to be altogether effective. Without trust, the client may not feel sufficiently capable to dislcose the thoughts and experiences their coach needs to know to fully understand the situation being discussed. 

The great thing about telephone based personal coaching is that my clients can sit in the comfort of their own homes, office or another place where they feel best placed to open up and say what they want to. My clients may touch on several aspects of their lives when coming for personal coaching or business coaching and how their past relates to their current decisions may bring in in factors which are emotional for them to communicate. 

In such cases I definately recommend telephone based personal coaching sessions, especially for relationship coaching, confidence & self esteem coaching, and wellbeing coaching.

Much also depends on the depth of emotions the client experiences, whether they prefer to be face to face with their coach or not, and how they prefer with communicate to others.   Both telephone coaching and face-to-face coaching can work, it really is down to how the coach and coachee choose to proceed.

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Joining a gay dating web site is one of the most convenient ways to explore dating options and meet potential mates. The major drawback is the anxiety over creating a profile. Making a meaningful connection over the computer can be tricky, especially when trying to encapsulate your entire personality into just a few paragraphs. Filling out a profile seems like an easy task, but if you fail to make both a positive and accurate impression, you may scare off the great guys and attract all of the wrong ones. When you’re ready to take the dive into online dating, consider these five tips to help you put your best face forward.

1. WRITE AN ATTENTION-GRABBING HEADLINE. Avoid using generic or cliche profile headlines that won’t pique interest. Incorporate keywords about either who you are or the type of man that you seek that will stand out on the page and encourage other members to seek more information about you. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to use overt sexuality to catch attention. The tone of the headline should reflect your best qualities. For instance, if you’re good at making other people laugh, make sure the humor shines through.

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]]> http://geordie-coach.com/Blog/top-five-tips-for-filling-out-your-profile-on-a-gay-dating-site-posted-by-matt-suissa-2/feed/ 0 Involvement Of Mathematics To Hit The Pick 5 Lottery Posted By: John Cunningham http://geordie-coach.com/Blog/involvement-of-mathematics-to-hit-the-pick-5-lottery-posted-by-john-cunningham-2/ http://geordie-coach.com/Blog/involvement-of-mathematics-to-hit-the-pick-5-lottery-posted-by-john-cunningham-2/#comments Tue, 11 May 2010 05:43:19 +0000 Aly - The Geordie Coach http://geordie-coach.com/Blog/2010/05/11/involvement-of-mathematics-to-hit-the-pick-5-lottery-posted-by-john-cunningham-2/

There are several ways in the market that are used to win this brilliant game of Pick 5 lottery and people love to play the lottery in hopes that they can win and change their life for the better. Some people believe in the use of mathematics to hit the Pick 5 lottery and there are many people and scientists who have done a lot of research and have vast knowledge about how to involve mathematics to hit the Pick 5 lottery as they have gained a lot from their own practice and have won the superb game of lottery many times. Not only that, they are using their past experiences to help other people to use their strategies and be successful winners in life.

Using mathematics to hit the Pick 5 lottery, there is a use of mathematics to help you pick the numbers. In order to select the numbers, you should choose any five numbers from a set of seven numbers that are very likely to hit the jackpot. This is very simple mathematics and you should follow it in order to win the lottery.

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The automotive industry has certainly embraced modern technology and this has seen the electrical components of a vehicle become a network of complex computer systems, controlling many different aspects of the cars performance. Because of this it is now more important than ever before that you ensure you maintain your car well as any problems with your cars electronics can result in some major problems and could potentially be quite costly to repair or replace. Any automobile is essentially powered through the car’s electrical system and there are some essential automotive electrical parts that will need regular care and attention in order to ensure your car is not only safe but continues to perform well for you.

Perhaps the most vital component of your car is the battery. The battery operates every aspect of your vehicle and if this is not kept in good condition then basically you car will not go. You should regularly check your battery and there are some basic things you can do yourself to ensure your battery is in good order. One common problem that can occur that affects the battery is a build up of corrosion on the terminals.

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As the mobile phones have gained importance, the mobile phone deals also became popular. Mobile phone deals allows one to make calls to any other person from one’s handset. There are basically three kinds of mobile phone deals, namely contract mobile phones deals, SIM only deals and the third one is Pay as you Go deals.
All these deals allows one to text, call and use Internet on the mobile phones. If an individual is looking to get hands on contract mobile phones then he can buy this easily via Online market or Offline market. Out of the two, Online market is a better way to get cheap contract phones as one can easily compare and purchase various deals on contract mobile phones and SIM only deals.
In a contract mobile phone, an individual needs to sign a contract to use the services of a partcular network provider for a specific period of time (Usually 12, 18, 24 months). If an individual is ready to sign the contract, then the retailer provides them a free handset of his choice with an option to select the network he likes and the deal he wants to opt for.

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If you are interested in a career in the audio visual field you are making a good choice. A recent study was conducted and it was found that the audio visual products and services field is expected to become a 90 billion pound industry by the year 2012 due to widespread consumer demand for digital signs, audio-visual conferencing, stream media, webcasts, display units, software and wireless connectivity.

Not only are audio visual jobs highly rewarding in terms of satisfaction but they also pay extremely well. The opportunities are many and no matter which area of this ever-expanding field you are interested in, you are sure to fine vacancies across the board. In order to find current openings within this field the internet is probably the best solution. The only problem being is that after conducting a simple search online using a term such as ‘AV jobs’, you will be given thousands of results.

In light of the astounding number of search results on the web for audio visual jobs, it would be more beneficial and sensible to search for job agencies that specialise in advertising vacant jobs in the live events industry.

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